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Tanqurayjones



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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2018 10:28 am    Post subject: White people asking for help Reply with quote

Hello , how would you respond to a white person who ask you for advice on their daughter dating a non white person?
The Male is black , female is white ,both in there early 20s . Dating 4 months. This is his first white gf ,he brings her home to meet his family. His mom calls the white girl , whew. Meaning white and jew . The gf doesn't know if shes being to sensitive about it . Should she speak up or what? I'm more concerned about the black Male and his safety but I'm speaking to the white females mom .shes the one asking for advice
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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2018 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Advice on what? How they should date? If they should date? When they should date? Where they should date?
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Tanqurayjones



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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2018 11:32 pm    Post subject: Re: White people asking for help Reply with quote

[quote="Tanqurayjones"]Hello , how would you respond to a white person who ask you for advice on their daughter dating a non white person?
The Male is black , female is white ,both in there early 20s . Dating 4 months. This is his first white gf ,he brings her home to meet his family. His mom calls the white girl , whew. Meaning white and jew . The gf doesn't know if shes being to sensitive about it . Should she speak up or what? I'm more concerned about the black Male and his safety but I'm speaking to the white females mom .shes the one asking for advice[/quote] the question is how do I help the black Male in this dating situation but it's the white girlfriends mom who's asking for the advice? Or should I not reply to her?
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PostPosted: Fri May 18, 2018 8:51 am    Post subject: Re: White people asking for help Reply with quote

Tanqurayjones wrote:
Tanqurayjones wrote:
Hello , how would you respond to a white person who ask you for advice on their daughter dating a non white person?
The Male is black , female is white ,both in there early 20s . Dating 4 months. This is his first white gf ,he brings her home to meet his family. His mom calls the white girl , whew. Meaning white and jew . The gf doesn't know if shes being to sensitive about it . Should she speak up or what? I'm more concerned about the black Male and his safety but I'm speaking to the white females mom .shes the one asking for advice
the question is how do I help the black Male in this dating situation but it's the white girlfriends mom who's asking for the advice? Or should I not reply to her?


Who wants advice? What do they want advice on?

This is how counter-racism works. You have to ask questions to get to what is being requested. Not just a whole lot of talk resulting in how someone feels about what was being said.

I think the "who" is the girl's mother. Is that correct?
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PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2018 1:53 am    Post subject: Re: White people asking for help Reply with quote

[quote="Edward Williams"][quote="Tanqurayjones"][quote="Tanqurayjones"]Hello , how would you respond to a white person who ask you for advice on their daughter dating a non white person?
The Male is black , female is white ,both in there early 20s . Dating 4 months. This is his first white gf ,he brings her home to meet his family. His mom calls the white girl , whew. Meaning white and jew . The gf doesn't know if shes being to sensitive about it . Should she speak up or what? I'm more concerned about the black Male and his safety but I'm speaking to the white females mom .shes the one asking for advice[/quote] the question is how do I help the black Male in this dating situation but it's the white girlfriends mom who's asking for the advice? Or should I not reply to her?[/quote]

Who wants advice? What do they want advice on?

This is how counter-racism works. You have to ask questions to get to what is being requested. Not just a whole lot of talk resulting in how someone feels about what was being said.

I think the "who" is the girl's mother. Is that correct?[/quote]
The gir's mom is white ,shes the one asking me the question
The girlfriend is white
The boyfriend is non white , black
I put a question mark at the end of all my questions. If you are confused about what I'm asking can you please state that .if my question dont interest you then I suggest you pass it
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PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2018 12:45 pm    Post subject: Re: White people asking for help Reply with quote

Tanqurayjones wrote:
Hello , how would you respond to a white person who ask you for advice on their daughter dating a non white person?

Here is the first question you asked.

I would ask her what is it that she fears most about her daughter dating a non-white person.

Tanqurayjones wrote:
Should she speak up or what?

Here is the second question you asked.

It is up to the white female to determine, at a time and place of her own choosing, if she is going to respond and how she is going to respond.

Other people may have differing views on what to say, how to say it and when to say it.
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